The Munich Affair
September 21, 2026
My Battlefield
September 15, 2026
Making Peace With What I Can't Control
Summary: It's not that we want to be controlling people; it's just that we want to prevent bad things from happening and bring stability to the chaos. Especially when we are afraid of what God seems to be allowing. So we come up with plans and get very intentional about trying to make everyone around us line up with what we really think is best.
We don't have bad motives. We're just desperate to prevent another hardship, more heartbreak, and all the emotional turmoil that feels so unnecessary. But this only leads to a counterfeit version of control where we believe everything depends on us- a crushing weight we were never meant to bear.--- bn.com
One of my favorite Bible Study teachers is back with, yet another, gem I felt was aimed right at me. I struggle with the whole "crossing that bridge when we get to it" thing. I'm more of an "I want to know what is on the bridge so I can be prepared for it" kind of gal. I don't like the unknown. I don't like surprises that aren't good ones. So trusting God has been a journey He has taken me on. So this book hit the bullseye with me.
If you've been through painful, shocking, unforeseeable things this book is for you. Once life has taught you to always be on your guard and to have your defenses ready to go, it's very difficult to stop living that way. Life has taught you not to. Your body has learned not to relax because another tidal wave of stuff is just around the corner you seem to be rapidly approaching.
Within these pages of, Making Peace With What I Can't Control, Lysa addresses the variations of control- what they mean and how they look in daily life. She's going to distinguish the difference between responsible and controlling mindsets. As you uncover all this, she includes examples from her own life. She walks you through the pitfalls of when control crosses over into negative territory.
Many of us have had someone in our lives who's behavior dictated our own behavior. This hit home for me because I had a friendship like this. While it started out healthy and with boundaries, over the years I was worn down to the point of my own choices and actions participated in the unhealthy control cycle it morphed into. This person's unhealthy need for control became the main influence on what I said and did- to my utter detriment. I became someone I no longer recognized.
Learning to trade my will for God's will has been a long, long process. I've repeatedly thought I had a given situation only to make a mess of things in the end. Had I just let God drive the bus, we wouldn't have hit so many trees along the way. I had to learn that He knows what He's doing. He sees the puzzle fully done, where I only have a few pieces of it. I exhausted myself trying to make everything go the way I felt it was best only to lose it all anyway. I fell on my face countless times because I was trying to force something to happen that wasn't meant to happen.
I strongly recommend this book! Making Peace With What I Can't Control is a great tool to help you re-evaluate your life. It helps you see what is on your plate that shouldn't be. Lysa is phenomenal at hitting you with the hard lessons through love. Every chapter has a QR code that sends you to a bonus video. it may be a craft or further discussion on what you were reading about, but helpful nonetheless.
You deserve to live with less stress on your shoulders. I encourage you to allow Lysa help teach you a way to do this. She's an amazing teacher who brings her vulnerability to the table, but also backed up expertise with professionals.
Paper Ghosts
September 1, 2026
1976: Restless young Willamena falls for a stranded musician who brings freedom and the promise of another life to her carefully controlled world. Their brief, incandescent love story promises to escape the pull of the Wester legacy until Willamena makes a fateful choice that changes her life forever.
Present day: Returning home is the last thing Bailey Wester wants. Yet as she reconnects with Willamena, the grandmother she feared, Bailey begins to understand the love, heartbreak, and impossible choices that shaped the women in her family and realizes the past may not have been trying to haunt them after all. A luminous novel filled with Sarah Addison Allen’s stunning prose and signature blend of romance, Southern charm, and wonder, Paper Ghosts reminds us that in order to have the future we really want, sometimes we need to live with the past, and not let go of it. ----bn.com



